Every Woman dreams to be a mother, to be a wife…, but then Being a wife and a mother is not easy. You cant enroll in a prestige school and learn how to be a Good wife to your husband and a good mother to your children.

Actually I am not i the position to talk about this simply because I am single and un-attached. But by observing the people around me and watching movies (although it was scripted) about how to be a mother and a wife. I can see that it is really difficult, most of the woman now get married because they are pregnant. After a few months of being a wife.. and it is really a short period of adjustments as a couple (boyfriend-girlfriend) to a real couple. And then suddenly the baby comes.

Our parents, lolo and lola’s always told us that we will only discover the real personality of the one we love when we leave in one roof. So the young couples who get married because the girl is pregnant will have a hard time to adopt on their new environment. Imagine You are just starting to adjust to your new life, starting to know more about each other… instead of being focused  to your relationship as a couple, the couple will focused on the child inside.

Being a mother or even parent needs a preparation of Self. Are you Emotionally, Physically and Spiritually prepared to be a mother, or to be a parent? Or you just one to fulfill your dream, that when the opportunity cames in.. you will grab it. Being a parent is not a job…. yes it takes a big responsibility, but you cant junk it when you are so damn tired of doing your responsibilities. The daily routine of being a mother, reducing your time for your self because your kids needed your time, teaching them on their homeworks when they are already schooling, forgetting yourself when you are at the mall and you want to buy a pair of shoes. Simply because you have to budget the money that you have in your pocket. Are you ready to loose your career and be a full time mother and wife?

I hope that one day you, I and other woman can answer this question. Why? Simply because most of the woman of today, don’t want to be a mother when they have a good career… They don’t want to loose it. And to the young ones… are you ready to loose the freedom that you have right now simply because you are to aggressive and forget that in every decision and action that you make.It’s either will make you or break you.

To all the lady, woman and mother who will read this blog I hope i help you

dhia