Most of the people think that the fulfillment and success of loving someone is having the person they love. They thought that they can only be happy if they are together… if they can show it.. and shout to the whole world that they love each other. I have nothing against it… It’s one way of showing love.

On the contrary, you can show love… by letting go.. this kind of love will not end with They will leave happily ever after. But it will end with goodbyes.

Once I had a friend who fall in love with someone she can never had. This person is preparing his life to be a priest. They love each other, they know that they don’t have to say a word to express their thoughts and feelings because they already knew.

Before the guy enter the 2nd stage of his preparation to be a priest.. the girl called him up and they talk. Once and for all they talk about their situation and most of all.. they said what they felt for each other.

The guy ask her to be his girl, but she refused to. Not because she don’t love the guy but simply because she knew that it will be unfair for the two of them. They have different life. And they don’t know if in the end of it.. they will be together… probably NOT.

The girl ask the guy if he can be her Best friend and He accept it… now that He is on his theology year… they still have a constant communication. They are still there for each other. They are the best of friends.

I can see to my friend that she is happy because she knows how to be in love, she might not have him but she knows that come what may.. once in their life they love each other.. and will love each other in different way until the end.

I remember when she said this line to the guy… "I know to my self that you are the first and last person that I will love like this…" And i know that she mean it. At present my friend had a bf but I know that her first guy that he love will remain in her heart frorever.

She might not have her in presence but in heart and mind they are together.