sad love story…
"The saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to
love you."
People often said that you will realized the importance of someone when he/she is gone. Most of the time we ignore someone who shows their care, love and attention. Maybe because we are too confident, and we think that he/she will not be tired on waiting, Or He/She can’t find somebody else.
And like what I said, the saddest thing in life is loving someone who used to love you… but now he/she can see you as a friend.(ouch). Then the one who realized the love after he/she lost the person will cry and said… I wish I told her/him … I wish I realized that He/she is the one that I truly love. I want to share this sad love story. I hope that you will learn something from it.
Once there was a Man who falls in love with his friend he did anything and everything to prover her that He is serious on his intention. But the girl refused to believe him.. just ignore him and entertain other suitors. Hoping that she can find the right one. Time passed by and the man accept his defeat, he just stay there beside her and become a friend.
The guy found somebody else, as well as the lady that he once court. When the girl experienced her first heart ache, her friend is the one who is there to comfort her. When she felt that she is alone, she will found herself talking to his friend. They simply shared their dreams, pains and joy…. and when they recall the times they are together.. they will laugh at it and said. "Ang galing no… ang tagal na nating ganito…" .They even experienced the pain of hurting each other because of the mis- ndertsanding, quarrel that makes their relationship stronger.
People thought that they are lovers because of the closeness that they have. But every time that the people will ask about their status. They simply said that they are just friends (showbiz!!!). Everything is fine, until the lady found herself being in love with his friend. But the sad part is.. it was too late… Yes He still love her.. but only as a Friend.
Now how she wish, she accept the truth that from the very start the man who once lover her is already special to her. Not because he’s a friend.. but because she wants to grow old with this person. Now that he’s gone.. all she had is the memories of the past. And all she can do is to accept it and Let him go…
+ T + H + A + N + K = Y + O + U +
Thank you for allowing me to take the risk and be my self, for so long I just hide what I really felt for you because I am so afraid to loose you. I am so scared to see my self alone, loosing the person who stand by my side, give my courage, show his concerned, and cares for me. Someone who is not afraid to see me sad, because he said in front of my face that I am wrong then give me a hug and said. Its okay, you can make it.. you can move on.
Thank you for allowing me, to listen to my heart… to know what is inside me. Yes I am still afraid because I really don’t know where this relationship is going to. I know that we are friends… but we both know that I love you more than a friend.. but for you I am just a friend. sigh. Now even though our situation is quite complicated… I still thank you because you help me not leave on the "What if" and "If Only" questions. I might loose you in the end… I might find myself in one corner, looking at you with somebody else. Or I might see you in the aisle waiting for me to say I DO. I really don’t know.. what would happen next.
Time can tell, but for now I just want to say Thank you… thank you for being there… thank you for everything..
It’s not how
long we held each other’s hand
What matters is
how well we loved each other
It’s not how
many summertimes we had to give to fall
The early
morning smiles we tearfully recall
What matters
most is that we loved at all
this is written by someone who took the risk… someone who choose to love.. someone who is in a complicated situation… someone who is happy despite of the sadness that she has… because of the uncertainty of the future. to you my friend…. I wish you all the luck.. I know and I belive that you can make it. you will be stronger… because now you know how to love. thanks for sharing your insights. - dhia
* L * O * V * E *
"Love is not about having.. is about being…."
Most of the people think that the fulfillment and success of loving someone is having the person they love. They thought that they can only be happy if they are together… if they can show it.. and shout to the whole world that they love each other. I have nothing against it… It’s one way of showing love.
On the contrary, you can show love… by letting go.. this kind of love will not end with They will leave happily ever after. But it will end with goodbyes.
Once I had a friend who fall in love with someone she can never had. This person is preparing his life to be a priest. They love each other, they know that they don’t have to say a word to express their thoughts and feelings because they already knew.
Before the guy enter the 2nd stage of his preparation to be a priest.. the girl called him up and they talk. Once and for all they talk about their situation and most of all.. they said what they felt for each other.
The guy ask her to be his girl, but she refused to. Not because she don’t love the guy but simply because she knew that it will be unfair for the two of them. They have different life. And they don’t know if in the end of it.. they will be together… probably NOT.
The girl ask the guy if he can be her Best friend and He accept it… now that He is on his theology year… they still have a constant communication. They are still there for each other. They are the best of friends.
I can see to my friend that she is happy because she knows how to be in love, she might not have him but she knows that come what may.. once in their life they love each other.. and will love each other in different way until the end.
I remember when she said this line to the guy… "I know to my self that you are the first and last person that I will love like this…" And i know that she mean it. At present my friend had a bf but I know that her first guy that he love will remain in her heart frorever.
She might not have her in presence but in heart and mind they are together.
anonymous
Isang daan at siyam na libong taon na ang nakararaan
Ng ipagdiwang natin ang pagkamit ng ating Kalayaan..
Isang daan at siyam na libong taon na rin ang nagdaan
Ngunit bakit alipin pa rin tayo sa ating sariling bayan?
Katotohanan at kalayaan ay patuloy na ipinaglalaban
Ngunit maging pamahalaan ay patuloy na nagbubulag-bulagan
Dahil sila mismo ang kumikitil sa tunay na katotohanan
Mga tao ay itinuturing na mangmanag at sunud-sunuran
Ito ang tunay na kalagayan ng ating Inang Bayan
Mga taong lumalaban at nagsasabi ng katotohanan
Makikita mo sa kalye sumisigaw at humihingi ng katarungan
Ngunit mga bibig nila ay binubusalan.. makikita mong walang buhay sa lansangan
O Inang Bayan.. kalungkutan mo’y nadarama ko
Sa pagdurusa, kahirapan at kamangmangan ng nakararaming Pilipino
O Inang Bayan, nawa’y makamtan mo ang tunay na kalayaan dito sa mundo
Upang kapayapaan at pagmamahal ay madama ng bawat Pilipino
ang tulang ito ay nagawa ko bunsod ng tunay na kalagayan at sitwasyon
nating mga pilipino… maaring bulag ang pamahalaan sa katotohanan
ngunit wag nating hayaan madala sa pagiging bulag at pipi ng mundong ating
ginagalawan. lumaban sa tama.. simulan sa sarili upang ang kalayaan ay
makamtan at susunod na henerasyon ito ay maranasan - dhia
dhia @ 25
I thank God for giving me a
chance to leave in this world, 25 long years in this cruel but happy road of
life in this world. I know that I have receive so much love, from the moment
that He put me into my mothers womb, the graces is already with me. He gave me
a wonderful parents, a mother who is always there to support me, a father who
is so happy to see me on my first step. And they are also the one beside me
when I experience my first fall.. to lift up, comfort me and tell me.. it’s
okay. A sister who teach me ho how to be strong and always remember that I am
not alone because she is there for me.. someone to lean on.
I experience how tough it is to leave in this world, but God sends me a true
friend and people whom I can be with in my journey. Some of them stays with me,
some of them just put a mark in my heart and in my life. And to all those
people whom i meet in my journey thank you.. for making me whom I am right now.
Thank you for accepting me & loving for who I am. I know that me life would
be different without you.
Thanks to my spiritual director Fr. Tony Laureta for being with me, guiding me
since I was 17, it’s been an 8 long years and your still with me in my journey.
Thanks being my inspiration in following and knowing the plan of the Good Shepherd
in my life. To Fr. Thebby and Kuya Ron.. the two important person in my
vocation.. thanks for the understanding and support… (love you talaga), to my
kuya (Fr.Mhike, James, Tonton, Tone, Henry, Ronel and Randel) thanks for
the love.. and for being my kuya. You really make a difference in my
life.
To my RGS Family.. thanks.. you really help me to change for the best. Sr.
Mela, thank you…. love you po.
To all those community that I belong, Antioch del Pillar, BLD-IDP-Singles
Ministry, thank you.. you help me to be a better person.. have a strong faith
and offer my life to God and the people.
June 04, 1982 I was born and todaybecause you make my precious life colorful because of your love.
I celebrate… Thanking GOD and all of you
