But Love is something that should not be Imposed. It is something that comes instantly.. they said that we can teach our heart to love. And I don’t believe on it. Love is something that comes naturally… when we DECIDE to open our hearts to love. it will come unexpectedly to the person that we never dreamed to love.

But when it comes into our life, the so called a decision to love the person unconditionally enters the scenario. Fr. Dan said that when we love, we should love the person without the word.. because and if only. We would love the person for who he/she is. We wont choose to marry a person because he’s handsome, have a good job, have a nice car and reach. If you marry that person because of the qualities what would happen to your relationship when he’s old and wrinkles can’t be hide, when he can’t provide because he loose his job when his family was bank-raft. Are you willing to love him/her despite of the situation or you’re going to give him up. Because he’s not the person that you use to love but in reality it’s not the person that you love but what he have and what he can give.

To love is a decision… you cant choose the one you love but you can decide to love him for who he/she is and accept him/her and said I am willing to be with you until we grow old.