"he was mine but not really, I never really had him so
I never Lost him….. I guess this is how we’ll always be..
I had him, He had me but then again… There is NO US Really…"

A sad quote.. but you know what it’s real!!! Like what I’ve said
in my past blog , "parang kayo pero hindi kayo". The pseudo
relationship is the most common relationship that the generation
of today choose to have. Than having a serious relationship..
and having a COMMITMENT…. to someone else.

Simply because this is the safest way.. for a man/woman who is
afraid to be hurt, commit and most of all. Afraid to lost their
FREEDOM. Dito walang bawal, walang limitasyon lahat pede niyong
gawin ng wala kayong iniisip na may karapatan kang pagbawalan
ang ka-sama mo. You can’t even call her/him a partner, because
your just a friend.. wait maybe a 1 degree higher than friendship. Why?
because you are so sweet to each other, most of the time you check
if he/she already eat her breakfast, lunch and dinner.
what is he/she doing? Who is with her/him. You are so damn worried
when he/she is sick. When he/she was stranded alone in one place
and how you wish in one click you can be there to help your special
friend.

You go out for dates, you allow him to hug and kiss you. Both of you
exchange sweet quotes in text, you hang with him/her on the phone
till 3 a.m. but there is no promise of love. All is about let us enjoy
the moment… time will pass and you never realized that you already love
that person.. but when that time comes and the guy (most of the time)
feels that your in love with him. You will be left alone… crying
because you lost him just easily.. without saying goodbye.. and without
hearing the word I LOVE YOU because there’s no such thing as US but WE.

sad but real… we have to face it. but i hope that one day those people
who is on this situation will realized that they are ready to commit, take
the risk and be with someone else on their side. FOREVER.. because
they said the word I LOVE YOU and they mean it that leads them to say I DO.