I remember when I was still in the convent I always said that being a woman does not mean that you have to bear your own child to be complete. But instead being a woman means you can love and take care of the children around you even though it’s not your own child.

Now I realized that yes, it can be. But for those woman who have the problem and the possibility of not bearing her own child. It’s a crisis… completeness of being a woman does not need to bear her own child.. but the peace of mind that you are capable of bearing it.

It’s a sad thought that a lot of woman killed their own baby.. because they are not ready to have it. They are young, they can not support it.. a lot of reasons. But the bottom line is.. they just ignore the blessing of being a mother. And on the other side of this world is the woman who weep and mourn because they can’t be a Mo’om.
That how they wish.. they can bear their own child… they can experience the blessing of having her own… baby.

At this point of time.. i don’t know what to think.. what i really feel inside… All i know is We.. Woman are born fragile… but by God’s strength.. we become strong inside and out.

To all those woman who can read this.. when the time comes that you became pregnant be happy.. because God gave you this precious gift.. to bear a child and to be a mother. Not all of us have the chance to experience this.. Be proud your one of them.