this is the three hard process of life…

good bye is the most painful word that a man can tell to someone.. simply because this is the end of everything. the end of the good relationship that you spend with someone, end of reaching your goals, dreams and hopes together. the happy days that you spend together will become a memory of the past but you can’t be with that person in the future.

but life is journey and more often we have to say goodbye and to let go of that person that we walk along the journey… simply because he has his own path and you have your own… you have different ways on reaching your destination. and all you can do is to let her/him go. because you can not hold her hand forever. it’s painful… it will bring you tears… need time and space to heal the wounds of parting your ways. and in the end you still need to let go.

after the goodbye and letting go part… is moving on. we dont have to be stagnant by remembering and holding on the memories that we have. life is a constant journey… there’s always a new day for a new beginning. all we have to do is to stand up pick the pieces again it might not be whole like before but you will be stronger. because everytime that you will see the broken part of yourself is the lesson behind it. and this will be your shield on your journey… as you continue to move on.